It’s amazing
how just a couple days or even a couple hours can do so much to change a
person. Sights are seen, smiles are shared, memories are made. That is how
Myanmar went for me. Everyone we passed on the streets was curious about us,
but in such a friendly way. They’d smile, wave, and greet us all “hallo!
mingalaba!” I was lucky enough to go on a trip that allowed us to meet kids at
a small local school. We left the hotel in two rather sketchy buses (rusty
exteriors, stained creaky seats, dirt everywhere) and traveled for at least
half an hour down a bumpy dirty road. When we arrived at the village all the
students were waiting to greet us in their green and white traditional
uniforms.
The school
consisted of an open courtyard area with open pavilions on one side for shade
and an eating area. Buildings surrounding the courtyard held various
classrooms. Our group was encouraged to draw, sing, and play with all the
students. I did a lot of drawing myself. I would do my best to procure
different animals and most of the students were able to say the English name.
Then I would ask them to write their word in Burmese. One girl I worked with
gave me her green and white hair ribbon. I took pictures with her. Boys outside
played a game just like hackeysack, except the ball was the size of a kid’s
soccer ball, hollow, and made with woven grasses. It was surprisingly heavy,
but the kids used it just like the knitted sacks in the states.
Some of our
SAS group had the opportunity to help the adults cook lunch for the students. I
thought it was too hot to be anywhere near a fire, but I was eager to try the
results. The students sat at low tables. They all waited to eat until we all
got food. The kitchen area had a large pot full of chicken stew, another
smaller one with something fishy. There was a giant bucket of rice. I opted for
the rice and a bit of chicken. I saw the cooking women add about a pound of
peppers to something, I passed on that. The meal was very good. We used spoons,
but many of the kids used their fingers as well. I sat with some girls who
seemed about ten. They spoke no English, but I think I managed to compliment
one on her earrings. Soon after the meal our group made our way back to our
buses with many of the local kids following. It was a difficult goodbye.
I was lucky
enough to have another opportunity to spend the morning with kids. Though that
experience was way different than the first. I signed up for a SAS program
called a noviciation ceremony. The description included a brief recounting of a
story of Buddha, how there was a prince who spent his entire life in his grand
palace, not seeing the outside world and the suffering of the people until he
was over thirty. It’s said he quickly renounced his secluded royal life style
in favor of one more equal and helpful to the people and thus became Buddha.
Young boys today go through a celebration to initiate themselves into monkhood.
We saw four young boys all dressed like princes, riding horses and being
carried on decorated platforms by others. We got to be part of the grand
parade. I carried a plant, others carried flags, food, and other goods. There
was music and dancers. We really didn’t know what to expect in our small group
of foreigners. We just joined the crowd of a hundred or more people…and had a
fabulous time. So much of that seemed so…old, a time honored tradition. But
walking down the street near the monastery we passed people talking on cell
phones, cars driving around, not to mention our group documenting the scene
with pictures.
After the
parade we were welcomed into the main room of the monastery by nuns young and
old. The nuns were quiet, dressed in pale pink robes, and all had shaved heads.
We took off our shoes, accepted cold juices, and found seats at tables and on
the floor. The young boys changed their clothes out of the finery they’d worn
moments before. They washed their faces and had their heads shaved. I am not
sure what to call the man they brought to a chair in front of the boys, but he
was elderly and in monk’s robes, definitely a leader within that community. He
recited several chants and the boys repeated his words. I thought that would
continue for longer than it did, but soon their chanting stopped and a nun
brought the boys some cold sodas. Then the guide for our group announced that
the boys would turn for photos, and that we could pose with them if we wanted.
I am glad for the opportunity the others had, but personally I found that to be
a bit disrespectful and declined. It was such a serious occasion. I thought for
a while that it was a bit unfortunate that these boys weren’t acting like boys,
the oldest once couldn’t have been more than nine. Well, perhaps it was only
for that day.
What was
most memorable about that day at the monastery was what happened after the ceremony
was completed. We learned a bit about the daily life of these particular monks.
They had certain rules to follow about how to act, to eat, to work. We were
shown to a hallway with different stations set up with food prepared for the
monks. So many of those men in robes walked past with their pots, accepting
food from locals and from our group. So many walked past that my attention did
start to wander…and I noticed two young boys in normal clothes (not robes)
pointing towards me and giggling. When I looked their way, one dashed out of
sight. I decided to investigate. That particular boy and I had that keep away
game going for an hour. Many other kids, yet all of them boys, came over to
interact with me too. We didn’t communicate much. I would try to say whatever
they said. We made faces and shapes with our hands. I taught them the English
words for different parts of the face. They had fantastic memories. One offered
me some sunflower seeds. Another gave me a small package of condensed milk,
apparently a treat for them. I slipped it subtly into the pocket of another
boy. I asked one of the teenaged monks if he could take a picture for us.
Thirteen boys joined me in it. I did not realize until later that the boy who
started it all, the one who played stay away, was in the picture too, behind
everyone else. I am so glad he is.
But the luck
and joy I experienced in Myanmar did not end there. Not with the amazing people
(especially children) I met, not with the delicious food I ate, not even with
the luxurious hotel we stayed in the most charming traditional Burmese town
right along Ngwe Saung Beach, did my wonderful experiences end with. While I
could easily say that my time with the young boys at the monastery will be my
most favored memory from Myanmar, it does not rest there alone. Right along
side it in my head and my heart lie my recollections of my first up close and
personal interaction with an Asian elephant. Her name was Zue an Lun and I was
lucky enough to be last in line at the elephant mounting station and able to
join to of my classmates on a short trek on her back through the jungle. She
had a wooden contraption on her back that riders were meant to sit in. The
handler rode in front, straddling her neck. Don’t worry, she was more than
strong enough to handle all of us. I sat behind the handler, astride just
behind her shoulders. Technically I was in the contraption too, but at first it
didn’t feel like it. Elephants are big enough that as they step, your whole
body sways from side to side, as opposed to just your hips when you ride
astride a horse. Elephant riding, at least in that position, is very relaxing.
The area we
rode through was just beautiful. I was able to reflect on that natural beauty
as well as on how quiet it was, no sounds but the occasional camera click, the
calling of the birds, and to quiet singing of our handler. Well, our group all
rode in a line and naturally called to one another from various elephant backs,
but it was easy to tune that out. Elephants are truly fantastic creatures. I
have never seen such powerful, graceful, yet gentle animals. Of course they are
capable of being anything but gentle too. Yet that day, nothing could (and
nothing did) go wrong. The ride ended and, as I have so often felt when
dismounting horses, I did not want to get off. Saying goodbye was even harder,
but thankfully that did not happen for a while. After the ride we had the
option of feeding the elephants some sugar cane (it’s amazing the way they can
crunch that stuff, it is about the consistency of a bamboo rod) and of course
to take more pictures. While elephants are definitely beautiful, their trunks
are really weird. Fantastic, but weird. The can curve and bend any way they
want. It is like an octopus arm or something. When I took a couple photos near
Zue an Lun’s head, I was a bit nervous over what just might do with that trunk.
All she did
was reach for the sugar cane that was being handed out. I could see the look in
her eyes, it truly was so kind and wise. I really can’t explain it better than
that. My first elephant experience, I will never, ever forget. I highly
recommend that if the opportunity should ever arise, elephant interactions
should definitely happen to everyone. Believe it or not, elephants now have
just as much a place in my heart as horses do. And for me, that is saying
something. While elephants may not be a feasible aspect of my life (as I plan
to make horses be) they are most absolutely a treasured part of my memories.
And that,
ladies and gentlemen, was Myanmar.